“Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.” ~C.S. Lewis
It is easy to fall into a “victim” mindset in a difficult situation. Instead of focusing on everything that seems to be going wrong, look for the ways that the experience will help you become a better person. Ordinary people can be shaped by hardships, helping them to grow to something that wasn’t possible without the lessons that were learned along the way.
Many people want their hardships to be taken away. Next time you pray, ask for God to strengthen you so that you can bear the burdens. Then, ask for insight so that you can understand the lessons that you need to learn in this situation. He will heal your heart and give hope for the future.